All posts by Vaishali Sharda

An Open Letter From A Divorceé to My Married Girlfriends

By Vaishali Sharda @v4vaishali & online at: onceuponachaitime.com Dear Married Friends, They say that when you get married, two lives become one. What they don’t tell you is that somewhere between the time he proposed to you, to the time you’re running a taxi service for your childrens’ soccer teams,

16 Rules For A Long Lasting Marriage

By Vaishali Sharda @v4vaishali & online at: onceupachaitime.com My Rules for a Successful Marriage “In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king.” At this point in my life, this is one of my favorite quotes. To me, it means that  I offer to you my pearls of wisdom

The Marriage That Should Have Never Been

A Marriage that never should have been By Vaishali Sharda @v4vaishali South Asian + Teenager + Divorced Parents + 1980s + 1st Generation Americans (South Asian Community + Family in India) = a disastrous equation for any hope of a normal childhood. This in short, sums up my teenage years.